What is equality? What does it mean to be equal to a man? In a country where an increasing number of young women professionals are entering the work force, I sometimes feel guilty for wanting to settle down with a family one day, and potentially taking a few years to spend on focusing on the rearing and education of my children.

Feminism. It's a word that can cause debates and rifts Australia-wide. One look at the comments in your average online news article about anything to do with women - or a quick google search of that gem of a term, 'feminazi' - will be enough to persuade you that anti-feminism is alive and well.

A report by PriceWaterhouseCoopers released this week shows that Australia lags behind the rest of the OECD in employment for people with disabilities, and ranks worst in the OECD on poverty for people with a disability. Christina Ryan, from Advocacy for Inclusion and a member of Women With Disabilities Australia, said on ABC radio that extreme social isolation and the “grinding, lifetime poverty” experienced by people with disabilities means most of us are not aware of the enormity of the problem within our community.

The topic of the blog post was suggested by someone else as a funny paradox, a hilarious juxtaposition of my different personal interests. I pondered upon this, but something did not sit quite right. It isn't a paradox. I AM a Girl Guide and a Feminist, I thought, but wait, aren't they actually the same thing?!

I’m a woman and I like cricket. Actually, I love cricket! Summer is all about the thwack of willow on leather, teaching whatever babies are among the extended family how to raise their arms for a six before they can say the words, and sitting down for an extended analysis of batting form and bowling strategy while sipping a G&T. My fondest summer memories include Funky Miller’s hysterical hair, and eating frozen grapes from the esky at the oval while watching Waugh bat.

I'm not normally into New Years' Resolutions, and in the past few years I've tried to stick with making just one that is at least in theory possible to achieve. Previous ones have been to learn how to play bass guitar, roll cigarettes or ride a unicycle (true story). None of these have actually been achieved. I did learn the bass line to the Talking Heads' 'Psycho Killer' but not much else. Still can't roll cigarettes. Can't unicycle but didn't break any bones trying to learn, so I guess I could chalk that up as some sort of success.

Petals! Long time, no Link Love! I’ve had a dandy holiday season – lots of eating and swimming and all those other lovely things that come with the summer holiday season – and luckily for you all, there’s been a whole heap of brilliant Settle Petal content posted so you can get your Oz feminist fix. But I’m back! And it’s a bumper Link Love this week, just to make up for it…

I am fed up I am fed up of; Not being taken seriously because I am a young woman

Well, you've all seen the news by now. Apparently my biting criticism of some of the more embarrassing moments for the Liberal National Party in the lead up to Queensland's state election last weekend wasn't enough to stop them being elected in a landslide. 'Landslide' is a term that does get tossed around much too easily when it comes to elections, I agree, but in this case it seems appropriate, as does 'whitewash', particularly given the overwhelmingly middle-class-white-male makeup of our new parliament north of the border.

Well, well, well. It started with the #mencallmethings thread on Twitter, continued with the Kyle Sandilands' incredible response to some mild criticism from a female journo, followed by the Melinda Tankard Reist is-she-a-feminist-or-isn't-she debate, and then we moved on to the nightmare that is the current US war on women, and what I saw someone refer to as 'Greer's arse debacle'. The debate seems to have lasted the whole summer - and I for one have been loving the shit out of it.

Petals! It's been a long time between Link Loves, we know. We've sorted ourselves out and decided to replace the sporadic, if-we-can-coordinate-it weekly link love and go for a monthly wrap up instead. So this is it: what you may have missed, or wish you had, in May.

In my capacity as founder and editor of Australian feminist website feminaust.org I was fortunate enough to travel to Istanbul, Turkey in April to attend the 12th Associations for Women's Rights in Development Forum. This year with the theme: Transforming Economic Power to Advance Women's Rights and Justice. I've been writing about it and reflecting on my experiences over the last few weeks and I thought Settle Petal deserved an update, so in true young feminist of the 21st century style, I'm going to wrap up my four days at AWID 2012 via my twitterings from that time.

I am getting a new tattoo for my birthday. It will be white ink, on the inside of my arm: The seam of history / is stitched with the bones of those / who remained silent A quote from Omar Musa's poetry. It's something I do my best to live, but sometimes it is hard. Imagine how much harder it must be for Anita Sarkeesian. She has been the target of an online hate campaign by video gamers who take offence at her critique of the stereotyping of women in games.

In one swift manouvre I've escaped another censure Lived to tell a bolder tale My controversial new adventure

Petals! June already? When did that happen? Winter's officially begun, as has the endless media circus that is State of Origin, and it was the month I realised that the real reason I despise Queensland's Bigot-In-Chief Campbell Newman is simply that I have a problem with his footwear. So here's what you may have missed, or wish you had, in June.

In Judaism there is a phrase: tikkun olam: to repair the world. It means a lot of things to a lot of people but here's what it means to me. That tomorrow can always be better than today and that I have a responsibility to make it so. I don't believe in God, but I do believe in a better tomorrow and that people taking responsibility will be the only way we can achieve that. In Reconstructionist Judaism, this belief in the holiness of tomorrow and my role in bring tomorrow to fruition is well articulated.

RU486 is licenced for Australia now, so all abortion problems are solved, right? Wrong. I've written before about abortion in Australia and how common perceptions aren't necessarily accurate. Like many of the things I write for Settle Petal, this was a list, of things people may not know or realise about abortion and Australian women. Some of these things are worth revisiting in the light of last month's announcement by the Therapeutic Goods Administration that RU486 has now been licensed for distribution in Australia.

A lot has been said about the Prime Minister of Australia this week. Much of it high praise; albeit mostly from overseas. It's probably not worth re-hashing here (though if you haven't seen it, you should do) but suffice it to say, I think the Prime Minister did a lot for feminism everywhere. And while there is much chatter about whether young women do or do not identify with feminism anymore, I have to say that watching such a powerful woman call a spade a spade when it came to the gendered nature of her experience in the top-job, I was never prouder to call myself a feminist.

It's not hard to guess what I was thinking about when I came up with a title for this blog (hint: it was sex). I am taking over from Simone de Beaver's Link Love and she has kindly shared some of her links and words for September. Alas it is quite late to be giving a wrap of September but just be grateful for my sharing, alright? Who knew I would be such a narcy blogger?

I was at a meeting the other day, and the man I was meeting with said that I seem like a very moderate and reasonable member of the women's movement. Yes, I know. I was a bit stunned too. I took it as a compliment (I think that's how he meant it), but I've been wondering ever since what a "moderate and reasonable" feminist looks like.

Find My Friends is a location-based iOS app that lets you see where your friends are, and receive an alert when they're coming or going from specific locations. But all this information can be used for good, or evil.

I went to a lecture by DrGita Sen the other day. She addressed a range of topics including claiming the word 'feminism'; general wisdom that gender equality has assumed the position of motherhood and apple pie, and asked the audience if that was the best position for gender equality to be in (hint: though she didn't say so I think her answer was no!); what gains feminism has made in the last decade; what slippages have we seen, and; what is the context of the fierce new world in which we work.

I recently met up with a friend I've not seen in a couple of years, and she said something about my newfound skating obsession that was just jaw-dropping. When I told her I'd started roller derby training, she half-whispered to me: "You're not going to turn lesbian are you?"

So what did happen in March that got our feminist knickers twisting?! Read on to find out the best of what happened in feminist minds in March.